What Is a Nipple Orgasm and How To Have One?

The nipples are a powerhouse of sensation. This erogenous zone is packed with hundreds of nerve endings that provide pleasure, and with the right stimulation, they can even give you a nipple orgasm. But what is a nipple orgasm and how do you have one? Finding your way to nipple nirvana requires the right accessories, lube, and techniques - read on to learn how to turn up the heat and experience mind-blowing nipple play. 

Our nipples are wired for pleasure

This small but mighty erogenous zone is home to so many powerful nerve endings that can be just as responsive to touch as the genitals. Studies show that when the nipples are stimulated, they activate the same part of the brain's sensory cortex that's lit up during genital arousal. And just like genitals, nipples become naturally erect when they're aroused. Blood rushes to the area, and different tools and techniques can enhance this effect further, drawing blood to the surface and making nipples more sensitive and receptive to touch. 

How to give an erotic massage during breast foreplay

Before you dive into nipple play, apply lube first. This can provide added glide and make them more sensitive to any kind of stimulation, increasing the likelihood that you'll experience a nipple orgasm. A small amount of body-safe lubricant like pjur AQUA can add glide, reduce friction, and heighten sensitivity.

While the nipples are the star of the show in this guide, don't forget the rest of the breast - a breast massage is a form of tantric massage, and it's a highly underrated part of foreplay. Massaging or squeezing the breasts can be incredibly sensual, either during solo or partnered play. To do this, apply a non-tingling, water-based lubricant, which is perfect for sensitive skin, such as the nipples. 

Then, use both hands for a slow and intentional massage. You can cup, knead, or gently squeeze the breast tissue, deepening arousal and working towards a fireworks finale. Think of breast stimulation and massage as a warm-up for your nipple play, whether you're solo or with a partner. 

How to have a nipple orgasm with fingers, tongue, and mouth 

When using your hands or tongue, you'll want to experiment with pace and pressure to find out what feels best for your body. For instance, some people might prefer a light pressure and a slow pace, especially if you're a beginner or just starting your session and like the idea of being teased. You can start by playing with other erogenous zones, building anticipation before getting to the nipples. For instance, use your hands to stroke the belly or rib cage, moving between the breasts and letting arousal build before you get to the nipples. 

Using your mouth can add a whole new sensation, combining wetness, warmth, and movement for a symphony of pleasure. For tongue technique, licking or sucking on the nipples can be enjoyable. There are many ways to lick, including tracing circles around the areola, flicking nipples with the tip of the tongue, or using the flat part of the tongue to maximize surface area and add more pressure. Many people also enjoy nipple sucking, where their partners draw the nipple into the mouth to stimulate blood flow and increase sensitivity. 

If you prefer more of an intense touch or want to experiment with BDSM, pinching, twisting, lightly nibbling, or biting on the nipples can ramp up the sensation. If you're doing this to a partner, always check in on them to make sure they're comfortable and enjoying what you're doing.

And while the tongue definitely has the power to bring you to a nipple orgasm, don't underestimate the power of hot breath. Slowly breathing warm air onto or around the nipple can wake up nerve endings. No matter what avenue of touch you try out, remember to stay curious, exploring different techniques and checking in with your partner (or yourself during a masturbation session) to figure out what works and what doesn't.

How to use sex toys for nipple stimulation

Using sex toys and accessories can take you over the edge in the best way possible. No matter what pleasure products you decide to use on your nipples, apply lubricant around them to reduce friction. For toys like nipple suckers, lubes are essential to create a vacuum seal. Here are the best nipple toys that can help bring you to O-town.

Nipple suckers: These toys are often made of silicone and release the sensation of nipple sucking. Squeeze the bulb and place it over the nipples until you feel a pleasurable pinching. Press the bulb inward to create a vacuum seal. The harder pressure you apply, the stronger a sucking sensation you'll experience. To release the seal, press down again.

Nipple clamps: Nipple clamps come in all styles, shapes, and sizes. Some are metal, and you can heat these up or cool them down to explore temperature play. However, these can feel more intense and are not always beginner-friendly. Clamps with silicone or vinyl-coated tips might be more comfortable. Clamps usually have screws that adjust pressure control, allowing you to increase intensity over time. Some of them are also vibrating, increasing the sensation further. 

Clitoral suction toys: We love a multifunctional sex toy. While these aren't technically designed for nipple use, they certainly do the trick and have two-in-one benefits - especially if you already own one and are looking to explore a low-pressure way to achieve a nipplegasm. They have wide mouths that can encompass the nipple for suction and vibrating sensations, and unlike clamps and suckers, you can move things down south after your session. Regular vibrators can also be used if you don't desire the feeling of suction.

Additional tips and techniques to achieve a powerful nipplegasm

When it comes to nipple play, a little creativity goes a long way. Beyond toys and techniques with the hands and mouth, there are a few things you can do to enhance your nipple play and make for a more exciting experience.

Incorporate temperature play and sensation play

A light form of BDSM, sensation play with nipples might look like wearing a blindfold while your partner touches you, heightening sensitivity. You can also trace a feather tickler over the body, circling around the breast until finally reaching the areola and nipple. 

Adding hot or cold sensations can also enhance your session, especially if you've lost any nipple sensitivity over time. You can glide an ice cube across the breasts, place warming or cooling gels on them, or even drip sex-safe candle wax on them, using all of the above to alternate temperatures and sensations.

Try edging

Putting your nipplegasm on hold with edging, aka orgasm delay, can lead to a more intense final climax. As you feel your pleasure increasing or your orgasm approaching, back off before it happens. Take a couple of deep breaths before starting again. Do this a couple of times (or more) for a more powerful finish. 

Combine nipple toys with genital masturbation

Want to indulge in some double trouble? Combine your nipple stimulation with genital stimulation if you really want to rock your world. While you can use a clit sucker on your nipples before moving to the genitals. You can also put on nipple clamps or suckers before taking your favorite vibrator for a spin. You can also ask your partner to focus on your nipples while you stimulate the vulva, anus, or perineum.  

Can people with penises have a nipple orgasm?

Any gender or anatomy can experience this form of pleasure, and it can absolutely be combined with perineum, anal, or prostate play. The same thing that happens to the sensory cortex in people with vulvas also occurs in people with penises, based on this research. Some people with penises actually report that nipple play makes their orgasms more intense, so even if they can?t reach orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, it can certainly be added into your pleasure routine.

Your nipple journey awaits

Ultimately, touching your genitals isn't the only way to have an amazing orgasm. Regardless of your anatomy, you can elevate your sex life to make it more fulfilling with a partner or your masturbation routine by including nipple play if you're looking to add some variety into your intimate time. Like any form of self-exploration, it might take a bit of trial and error, but that journey can be a fun and memorable one that increases your sexual confidence and self-awareness.