Avoid Making These Lube Mistakes During Sex (And How to Get It Right)

Let’s talk about lube—because not enough people do. It's one of the simplest, most transformative ways to make sex (or solo time) feel more comfortable, more sensual, and way more satisfying. But here’s the thing: a lot of people are still making avoidable mistakes with lube. From choosing the wrong type to using expired formulas or applying it incorrectly, these little slip-ups can ruin what should be a very slippery good time.

And with so many trending pjur products dominating search—from the classic pjur ORIGINAL to our fan-favorite pjur WOMAN, pjur lube has become a trusted go-to for smoother, more satisfying experiences. This guide breaks down exactly how to use lube correctly, which products are right for you, and how to avoid the lube mistakes that can kill the mood.

Why Is Lube a Game-Changer?

Contrary to what outdated ideas might suggest, lube isn’t just something you reach for “when things aren’t working.” Whether you’re playing with a partner, exploring solo pleasure, or adding a toy into the mix, lubricant enhances every kind of touch. It reduces friction, increases comfort, and allows your body to relax so you can fully enjoy the experience.

Not to mention, our bodies don’t always produce the natural wetness we need—especially with stress, hormones, medications, or simply time. Lube isn’t just helpful—it’s pleasure-affirming. And with high-performing options like pjur lube now trending worldwide, it’s clear that more people are starting to agree.

What Happens If You Use the Wrong Lube?

Using the wrong lube can lead to more than just an awkward moment. Irritation, damaged condoms, ruined toys—it’s all on the table if you’re not using the right formula for your body or activity.

For example, pairing a silicone-based lube with a silicone toy can degrade the toy’s surface over time—unless it’s a high-quality, toy-tested formula like pjur ORIGINAL, which has been cleared by leading toy manufacturers.

Similarly, oil-based lubes break down latex, making them a no-go with most condoms. If you’re looking for a universal go-to, a water-based option like the trending pjur AQUA is safe to use with toys, condoms, and all body types.

Which Lube Is Best for Sensitive Vaginas?

This is one of the most searched questions right now—and for good reason. Vaginal tissue is delicate, and using the wrong lubricant can throw off your pH balance or trigger irritation that lingers long after the fun ends.

The key? Choose a formula that’s free from unnecessary additives like glycerin, parabens, and artificial fragrances.

pjur WOMAN Nude is designed specifically for sensitive skin and vulvas. It’s pH-balanced, dermatologically tested, and delivers the moisture you need—without any ingredients you don’t.

What about natural ingredients?

With the rising interest in clean beauty and body care, it’s no surprise that people are also looking for lubricants made with mindful, body-safe ingredients. That’s why pjur is continuing to invest in formulas that keep it simple, safe, and transparent. As demand for organic and naturally derived products grows, we’re preparing to meet that need—with the same quality you already trust.

What Lube Is Safe to Use with Latex Condoms?

Not every lube is condom-safe, and using the wrong one can compromise your protection. Stick to water-based or select silicone-based lubes that clearly state “suitable for use with latex condoms.”

All pjur lubricants go through rigorous condom compatibility testing. That means you can focus on connection and pleasure—no second-guessing required.

Common Mistakes When Using Lube During Sex

Let’s explore the most common lubricant mistakes that can ruin sex—and how to avoid them.

Using too much or too little

More lube isn’t always better. Start with a hazelnut-sized amount and build from there. Too much can reduce friction and sensation, while too little—especially during anal or toy play—can cause discomfort or injury.

Ignoring the expiration date

Yes, lube can expire. If it smells strange, looks cloudy, or you can’t remember when you bought it, toss it. Using expired lube could introduce bacteria or irritate the skin.

Choosing the wrong formula for the activity

Anal sex calls for extra slip and longer-lasting formulas. That’s why the thick, long-lasting pjur BACK DOOR is a popular choice—it stays exactly where you need it and keeps things moving comfortably. Using a runny water-based lube here? You’ll likely be reapplying (and pausing) more than you’d like.

Skipping the warm-up

No one wants a cold surprise between the legs. Rub lube between your hands before applying to bring it to body temperature and make things feel more sensual, not clinical.

How to Use Lube Correctly

Lube is more than just a tool—it’s part of the play.

Start with clean, dry hands. Squeeze out a small amount, warm it in your fingers, and apply it gently to yourself, your partner, or your toy. Let it become part of your foreplay—take your time, explore, and reapply as needed.

Water-based lubes like pjur AQUA may absorb into the skin over time, which is totally normal. If you’re going for longer sessions or massage, a silicone-based formula like pjur ORIGINAL will last longer without needing frequent touch-ups.

Let Your Pleasure Lead

Lubricant isn’t a backup plan—it’s a confidence booster, a comfort enhancer, and a turn-on all in one. Whether you’re navigating solo pleasure, enjoying partner play, or trying something new, the right lube helps your body stay focused on what feels good.

Whether you're exploring your first pjur lube or upgrading with a specialty product like pjur WOMAN or pjur BACK DOOR, there's a pjur lubricant for every kind of connection.

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